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Hate Me Now

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作者Dr. Robin Berman
出版社HarperCollins
ISBN9780007579839
出版时间2014-04-29
字数27.8万
分类HarperCollins,进口书,外文原版书,家庭,亲子

读书简介

With so many parenting styles to choose from, when it comes to giving your child the best start in life it can be difficult to know which way to turn. Psychiatrist and mother Robin Burman’s brilliant new book shows you the way: Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later is the definitive guide to helping your child grow with both love and discipline. Whilst in years gone by children were seen and not heard, too often nowadays their every whim and tantrum is pandered to. As much as the former is unthinkable, the latter can also be damaging to a child’s later life: over praised children allowed to set their own limits often become anxious and are unable to deal with the negative emotions they will eventually encounter. Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later finds the perfect balance between the outdated old and the unfortunate new. Through helpful guidance based on Robin’s extensive experience as both a certified psychiatrist and mother, it will teach you to be comfortable setting boundaries whilst maintaining a loving connection; fostering confidence, respect and emotional maturity in your child as a result. Packed with practical advice alongside plenty of sympathetic anecdotes, Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later is the warm, relatable guide to parenting which you can come back to again and again. Robin Berman, MD, is a psychiatrist; associate professor at UCLA; and a founding board member of the UCLA Resnick Neuropsychiatric Hospital.

目录

Contents

Introduction

CHAPTER ONE

Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later

Center of the Universe

No Hitting Allowed

TMI: Too Much Information

Too Many Choices

Tolerating Unpopularity

CHAPTER TWO

The Strength of the Bond

Love

Limits

Time

CHAPTER THREE

Look, No Hands!

Dependency Breeds Resentment

Good Old-fashioned Elbow Grease

False Praise

CHAPTER FOUR

Being an Emotional Grown-up

Don’t Invert the Roles

Evolve Beyond Your Primitive Emotions

The Ghosts of Parents Past

Rupture and Repair

Check Your Ego

Check Your Emotions

Self-Care

Use Your Lifelines

Navigating Rough Waters

Therapy Tools That Work for Parenting

Things Therapists Often Hear

Things Therapists Rarely Hear

CHAPTER FIVE

Trash the Trash Talk

No Trash Talking Your Spouse or Your Ex

Don’t Trash Talk Your Kids

Model Honesty

Don’t Let Your Kids Trash Talk

Labels are Limitations

Minimize the Divisions

Find Your Fit

No Trash Talking Yourself or Your Body

Your Thoughts are the Final Frontier

CHAPTER SIX

Prada Kids

Prada Academics

Prada Sports

Character

CHAPTER SEVEN

Moderating Media

Parenting Versus Pacifying

Virtual Addiction

Plug In, Tune Out

The Antisocial Network

Be the Content Police

Gatekeepers

Unplug

CHAPTER EIGHT

Life Is Remembered in the Pauses

Ease off the Schedule

Loosen the Reins

Let Them Play

Keep It Simple

Pockets of Peace

CHAPTER NINE

Love’s Lasting Legacy

Moments Matter

Open up to Optimism

Kaleidoscope

CHAPTER TEN

Out of the Mouths of Babes

Acknowledgments

About the Author

Copyright

About the Publisher