Hate Me Now
图书信息
| 作者 | Dr. Robin Berman |
| 出版社 | HarperCollins |
| ISBN | 9780007579839 |
| 出版时间 | 2014-04-29 |
| 字数 | 27.8万 |
| 分类 | HarperCollins,进口书,外文原版书,家庭,亲子 |
读书简介
With so many parenting styles to choose from, when it comes to giving your child the best start in life it can be difficult to know which way to turn. Psychiatrist and mother Robin Burman’s brilliant new book shows you the way: Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later is the definitive guide to helping your child grow with both love and discipline. Whilst in years gone by children were seen and not heard, too often nowadays their every whim and tantrum is pandered to. As much as the former is unthinkable, the latter can also be damaging to a child’s later life: over praised children allowed to set their own limits often become anxious and are unable to deal with the negative emotions they will eventually encounter. Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later finds the perfect balance between the outdated old and the unfortunate new. Through helpful guidance based on Robin’s extensive experience as both a certified psychiatrist and mother, it will teach you to be comfortable setting boundaries whilst maintaining a loving connection; fostering confidence, respect and emotional maturity in your child as a result. Packed with practical advice alongside plenty of sympathetic anecdotes, Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later is the warm, relatable guide to parenting which you can come back to again and again. Robin Berman, MD, is a psychiatrist; associate professor at UCLA; and a founding board member of the UCLA Resnick Neuropsychiatric Hospital.
目录
Contents
Introduction
CHAPTER ONE
Hate Me Now, Thank Me Later
Center of the Universe
No Hitting Allowed
TMI: Too Much Information
Too Many Choices
Tolerating Unpopularity
CHAPTER TWO
The Strength of the Bond
Love
Limits
Time
CHAPTER THREE
Look, No Hands!
Dependency Breeds Resentment
Good Old-fashioned Elbow Grease
False Praise
CHAPTER FOUR
Being an Emotional Grown-up
Don’t Invert the Roles
Evolve Beyond Your Primitive Emotions
The Ghosts of Parents Past
Rupture and Repair
Check Your Ego
Check Your Emotions
Self-Care
Use Your Lifelines
Navigating Rough Waters
Therapy Tools That Work for Parenting
Things Therapists Often Hear
Things Therapists Rarely Hear
CHAPTER FIVE
Trash the Trash Talk
No Trash Talking Your Spouse or Your Ex
Don’t Trash Talk Your Kids
Model Honesty
Don’t Let Your Kids Trash Talk
Labels are Limitations
Minimize the Divisions
Find Your Fit
No Trash Talking Yourself or Your Body
Your Thoughts are the Final Frontier
CHAPTER SIX
Prada Kids
Prada Academics
Prada Sports
Character
CHAPTER SEVEN
Moderating Media
Parenting Versus Pacifying
Virtual Addiction
Plug In, Tune Out
The Antisocial Network
Be the Content Police
Gatekeepers
Unplug
CHAPTER EIGHT
Life Is Remembered in the Pauses
Ease off the Schedule
Loosen the Reins
Let Them Play
Keep It Simple
Pockets of Peace
CHAPTER NINE
Love’s Lasting Legacy
Moments Matter
Open up to Optimism
Kaleidoscope
CHAPTER TEN
Out of the Mouths of Babes
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Copyright
About the Publisher
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